She lied to me yet again.....
Her love language is act of service????? then how the hell did she fell for me when I'm in Thailand, and her in Singapore!!??!! She just want me out of her life now... because she feel stressed.... Love shouldn't be about stress... If you love someone, you will do everything for them to your best of ability.... Just like her parents.... Her work may make her feel stress, but not her family members... although it sounds related, but it can totally be 2 different things depends on how you see it.... If work gives you too much stress, then walk away from it... You can quit it...
3 ways to find out your love language....
1) What you always complain about your partner...
2) What will you want your partner to do for you...... that would make you feel loved and valued...
3) What you normally do for your spouse to show your love.....
1) She had never complained about me not doing anything for her.... 2) She knows this best... its probably the same thing which made her fell for me...... 3) She flying to Bangkok??? is that a service??? If that's a service, then why doesn't she feel happy when I'm there.... Why is she not thrilled at all to see me.... why....
In my mind, her love language is probably quality time... Since she always complain about me not being there for her at the moment.....
Why does she look for me???? She must be in some sort of emotional turmoil.... tired, or physically sick... She just wanted me to be there for her.... Being there for her, replying all her message is an act of service? not? I bought Thai groceries for her family, act of service not???
I gave her a test of love.... she failed it miserably.... I'm still her last priorities..... Reading the book only when I said I would check on her progress.... Just me making a request is enough for her to show just how much she love me.....
Uncle told me, when I told him that I agreed to not get married just for her... his reaction is... "don't be stupid.... it's not worth it..."
I guess he's right..... You aren't worth it.....
Deep down, she may not know this, but she don't love me anymore... she may only like me for the fact that I treat her and her family good... But all in all, she don't love me le.... it's not love she's having for me... its more of a feeling of wastefulness.... Find someone you love.... You'll feel heaven if that person love you back..... I found her.... but I don't think she really loved me.... It's not a matter of comparing your family to myself... Love is love... no matter what, there's some things that you'll never do to the person you love...
To me, it may sounds like you lied, but I know you don't mean to lie.. you just dunno yourself.... you just dunno yourself as well as people around you do...
