I jus figured out that when someone dun love u anymore, they could be so cruel......
I jus learned that a fren would not ask u for something u can't give, but also respect what u can afford to give.
I just noticed that Friends do not need a good reason why u have no time for them.
Friends would care for u, when u r down. Try to help u tide over ur difficult times... Although not 24/7, but they would try.
She's not my girlfriend..... and the fact that she wanted me to remain friend, is nothing more than a big fat lie.... She didn't want me in her life... She don't want to be lead on.... again...
It needed courage to accept someone who hurt u to remain friend. It needed even more courage to talk to her.. Maybe I wanted to be lead on... Maybe I wanted to lead her on... But, just a "no" will be more than sufficient... React after one party had hope for a reconcile would be ideal... Friend do not just leave the person be, and pray hard he dun do something stupid... They encourage him not to do stupid things, telling him that he/she would be there for him if they needed anyone to talk to....
Relationship burned me thoroughly this time... I'm too afraid to do it again... Dun think she would be my friend... That old Ms. Poh who cared for a friend who was lonely overseas is now gone.... However, I will still be your fren Ms Poh. Msg me when u need someone to talk to... Other than that, I will disturb u no more...
