Y mus she chose the extreme measures.... When 1 extreme would hurt me alone.... And another would hurt both of us?? In any case, I won't be happy.... Y can't we work out a solution? A solution where both of us compromise?....
I cannot garantee her that with the compromise, both of us would come out happy, but I can garantee, that both of us wouldn't be this upset.... Just dun understand.... I dun want her to be in a sad situation, but I'm sure its this bad becos of me...
Does marraige means that she can't take care of her family? Its not the cert.... Nor is it the status.... Its us.... Its everyone around us.... Its a peace of mind... Its a future to work together for... Its our goal... Our common goal....
If she want me involve... Ask me what I want... Dun ask me yes or no...... Else it only tells me that what I want is not important... I am not important.... Dun nv ask my opinion nv ask what I want ask me make a choice from ur own ideas and tell me that becos I'm important, u asking me make a decision... That's not how it should work....
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