07 February 2011

I'm back in Thailand.... Must continue to do what I have to do again starting tmr... Wondering how much of a catching up work I have to do.... Wondering if my prayer this morning would be good....

We had a short quarrel over my suggestion on how to punish Kemp in future for being disrespectful to her, her mom and her dad.... She told me... I have no experience in bringing up a child..... How to? She's my 1st GF.... But I have many good examples around me... But then, I dun wan no quarrel on my last day.. So I just swallow everything.... Just want her to try some things..... Not asking her to show some performance.... Not saying my method is a sure workable method, but just try..... Not say no.... And when I give a suggestion, I'm not saying her not doing a good enough job... Just want ah boy to be better, want ah boy to be lesser of a pest and problem to her..... Dun want to her upset over things Kemp said or do.... He sometimes does it now even though he's 5 and have limited vocab.... Imagine him growing into primary school, secondary school..... But nonetheless, I think she had my intention wrong..... But doesn't matter BA....

Had a long talk with dad on plane.... Mostly are old stories.... Some of those new.... I told him about her and how great a woman she was.... Having to juggle work, family and boy altogether... Think he was quite impressed... Though he asked whether I'm with her out of pity.... I firmly told him no... I fell for her before I got to know abt her family problem.... I might love Kemp out of pity, but I think I do love him and wished that he would grow up healthy too.....
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